Not without many tears and complaints launched Upward, naturally. But I get that He gets it.
Soon after my Mo’s passing in late October, something came along to consume 150% of my time and focus — my job, and specifically an impossible 12/31/12 deadline for a huge project delivery. A death march, as we call it in my line of work.
I survived that too … met the deadline, passed the subsequent audit, tossed it all into the company Bonus pool, and even had a few Bonus drops splash back on me …
… but not without developing extreme crankiness about all things Work and even more extreme disdain for my management. A few weeks after the beginning of the year, at peak of crank, having worked eight days in row, 12-14 hours days, on the stupidest shit my “Can we chat?”-at-any-late-hour-they-felt-like-it-management could dream up, my phone rang at a late-hour, flashing Caller ID Guess Who. Ignoring the air raid siren screaming in my head, I answered. The bomb exploded a short fuse later. I hung up on Guess Who and fired off my resignation. Oops. Maybe I should have lined up another job first.
Utter peace and contentment and the joy of having something real to worry about (money) reigned on my planet for a few unemployed weeks, then another organization in the same company hired me back. The Grace of finding a job quickly came along with a decent sign-on bonus, no loss of tenure, a line of work I love, much less management ineptitude, much less actual work, a bit less salary, and a solid and pleasantly nutty team to play at work with.
The bad news is that anxiety and panic are still my near-constant companions. Worse since I lost Mo, yes, but I understand why. The toolbox gets a lot of examination, restocking, reorganizing. Drugs are necessary. The good news about this bad news is that I am now in therapy with a psychologist and some of her insight I find completely fascinating. I am not buying all of it quite yet, but some of our talks are very enlightening. She is part Native American and she brings some of her understanding of spirituality into her therapy, and my spirit connects with that. My spirit also connects with her taste in jewelry — turquoise and silver. There will be many posts about what I am learning from her.
To conclude this catching up episode, there is a new horse. Actually he is an old horse, borrowed from a local trainer who loves him to pieces but doesn’t have time for him. His name is Legend and he is sweet, sound, unflappable, work-loving, people-loving. Hanoverian, 17-2 hands (extra-large), patient, quiet, affectionate and willing to partner with me to work on low level dressage while I wait for my next jumping horse and the $ to pay for him/her to fall from the sky. In the meantime, I am enjoying building a partnership with the Big Boy and learning new stuff about horses. Legend is a completely different being than Mo, but he is turning out to be a patient and agreeable teacher like Mo was.
Life has been much worse.